She was dressed just fine, it was the chair and the position they had her sitting in, up higher than the audience.
And she was dignified enough to realize it
I was at club once with my wife, my good friend and his girlfriend…and HER twin sister. Buddy on left. Wife and twins on HIS left, all dancing together. He and I were facing the stage.
Out of the corner of my eye, i notice someone is not dancing. I look over and a woman and her friend were being kind of harassed by these two dude bros wearing tank tops and on some sorta drug. They were in front of the not dancing girls and backing into them overtly; obviously making them uncomfortable.
I made eye contact with her and mouthed…”you ok?”
she shook her head no.
So i motioned left with my head and pointed to my wife and the twins.
The two girls squeeze through and the guys try to follow and i cut them off with my best white guy dancing. 🤷🏻♂️
it was super pact and they couldn’t casually dance or nudge their way over, so they stayed put. The ladies danced with my wife and friends. Me and my buddy continued holding hands.
(joke)
later…the wife asks me about the girl. she said she gushed about me saving the night and how fucking terrible those guys were being.
This shit happens to women so much…I’m not a white knight or whatever…but i was glad
to have helped in that moment. You could tell they really appreciated it.
I had a sorta similar situation on a work night out. Was chatting to some of my female colleagues and a male colleague came over and grabbed one of the girls by their waist and dragged them off to dance, whilst she was still mid sentence. I asked if she was uncomfortable and she said “yeah” so i grabbed the guys arm and told him to be more respectful.
He spent the next few hours slagging me off to my workmates and grabbed the girl again which i corrected him on again.
Later on i was smoking outside and i get a text from another girl saying “can you save me from the guy, hes being really weird”, so i stormed in and grabbed him by the collar, pushed him around a bit and said a few choice words. I left straight away bc i knew id end up swinging at some point, and most of the girls who were there left with me because they didnt want to be around him if i wasnt nearby. We all got ubers to our respective homes.
I was worried it was going to result in disciplinary meetings because i got aggressive, but one of my managers came up to me a week or 2 later and told me he heard what happened and thanked me and shook my hand. Hes knows one of the girls who were being harrassed since she was young so is quite protective over her.
It sounds like i made this all up now i type it out, but it is true lol
It honestly shouldn't sound made up to anyone who has actually been in the club scene at all for any period of time. A lot of crazy and unsavory shit goes down in bars and clubs.
...but to the category of redditor who hasn't seen grass or breathed fresh air in the past decade then yeah it might seem made up lol.
ERRM AKSHULLY I spent 2 hours browsing OPs posts and he never mentioned anythign about working at a job OR going clubbing, so he must be lying. If he truly is a worker/Clubber he'd make seventy posts about it with at least 200 upvotes each.
So, as you can see my epic Reddit detective work has saved you from believing in anything happening ever to anyone for any reason other than clout.
I (female) had a male colleague slap my ass at a work outing. He was drunk, grabbed my hand and pulled me to the dance floor, spun me around and slapped my ass. I ran off and told one of my female colleagues and a few of us left immediately. Word got out and when we got back to work on Monday my VP and senior manager called me into a meeting to discuss what happened. No disciplinary action was taken against my male colleague and he ended up getting promoted shortly after. That place was toxic af.
I had a colleague openly discuss my arse with me. I’d lost weight and he thought he’d point out that my jeans weren’t as tight and therefore my arse didn’t look as juicy. Ummm, okay.
I don’t have any gold, but I want to take a moment to say I agree with you; things do not ever happen. to anyone. ever. I’m actually disgusted by people who tell me things because they’re always lying.
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u/CuddlyWuddly0 Mar 05 '25
She was dressed just fine, it was the chair and the position they had her sitting in, up higher than the audience.
And she was dignified enough to realize it