u/mcavoy4potus cake day is 2013 - it's not possible for him to be a teenager unless he made this account when he was 6. i didn't make it creepy, he did. and no we all weren't starring at a teenage girls ass throughout this video like the 40+ people upvoting his comment admitting they were.
I meant that both the people in the video are teenagers. Teenagers get handsy! We've all been a teenager, and half of us are parents who are also probably watching from a parents point of view. It really doesn't mean he's being a perv.
or the comment implied that unlike the teenage boy, they wouldn't have been able to "restrain" themselves from groping this teenage girl. I remember being a teenage girl and having grown adult men "congratulate' my boyfriend on "pulling" a looker like me ... it gives the same vibes imo. gross ones.
I get that, and I don't want to minimize your experience. However I do see a clear distinction between grown men suggesting that they are sexually attracted to you as a teenage girl based on them making remarks about your appearance, compared to OP's comment which suggested that when they were a teenager their hands would likely have wandered with their (presumably same age) girlfriend.
that's not how I perceived that comment, I perceived it as OP commenting on this teenage girl specifically, as he was commenting on this teenage boys hands spefecially - he was observing them to see if they groped the teenage girls body like he would have in his shoes. hence the admiring of the "restraint"
idk how else to interpret it tbh, it's so obviously an admission of where his eyes were the entire video.
nah just nuerodivergent & find the normalization of the idea that teenage boys are "restraining" themselves from groping without consent (otherwise why is there restraint if she wants it too?) and normalization of men putting themselves in the shoes of a teenage boys to justify objectfying a teenage girl (ie the prevalence of the teen porn category) .... bizarre?
born in the wrong timeline i think - clearly nobody agrees. that's ok, i think different, nothing new. toodles.
You know it’s full of teenagers on reddit right? You can’t know if these commenters are teenagers themselves. Also teenagers can be like 18-19. Nothing wrong with someone 20-22 being attracted to someone in their very late teenage years.
yeah... i did math. The account is 12 years old. In order for them to still be in high school and not an adult man congratulating a teenage boys "restraint" to not grope this teenage girls body (implying like they'd desire to) they'd had to have made this account when they were 6 years old. 6+12 = 18.
Can you project yourself back to being a teenager, assuming you aren't currently one? Teenage boyhood (boyhood in general really but let's avoid the ammunition) is rife with the desire to let your hands wander whenever possible. It's called being horny.
Most people can identify with the feeling of being a horny teenager without actually feeling whatever said horny teenager is feeling. Even if the teenager isn't being horny, believe it or not!
yeah, maybe that's not a good thing considering 1/4 girls are sexually assaulted before age 21? i can project myself to being a teenage girl scared of the consequences of saying no or stop to a teenage boy, yes.
You're right. It's hard to normalize/support sexuality openly while also paying mind to shifting cultural norms - I didn't even see the problem until you pointed it out like that.
What do you think would be a healthier way for an older guy to cheer on a younger in his conquest? I know that sounds stupid and territorial but that's the norm rn and we gotta work around it
Changing the perspective of sex as a conquest intuitively seems the answer, but that dynamic works on a sexual level that is subject to fluidity. Dom/sub stuff is kinda inherent in a lot of relationships to some extent so... It's pretty normal?
Yeah it does sound stupid and weird - girls and women aren't conquests, they're not achievements or trophies that increase a man's status. so weird so many heterosexual men seemingly center other men's validation when dating/having sex with women.
idk i don't think an older guy should be "cheering on" a teenage boys sex life - it's weird.
How do you feel about older women mentoring the sexual attitudes of younger women? Like giving advice and telling stories or whatever. Do women ever give each other a cross-generational "atta girl?"
No... that's weird. If we're mentoring it's advising girls about the lies boys and men may tell in order to groom / coerce them into sex, into a relationship, to not wear a condom etc - we advise them about their bodily autonomy, and to make sure the boys they're interested in aren't just viewing them as conquests to impress their male friends, but as a human beings.
There is no "atta girl" when 1/4 girls will be sexually assaulted before they turn 21 - there is just worrying and warning to try to prevent them from going through what we went through with young boys and men.
Perhaps adult men should be doing less "cheering on" young boys sexuality and instead ensuring young boys understand consent - especially since their current educators are andrew tate and pornhub.
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u/McAvoy4Potus 12d ago
Bro has some hand restraint.