r/MensRights 23h ago

General Have Men Lost the Right to go Shirtless??

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First, let me say that this issue probably varies a lot by location. It's most likely only a first world problem, and my guess is, only for some parts of the first world at that. So, if anyone wants to say this is, or is not, true where you live, it would be informative to say what region you live in. I'm in the Northeastern USA myself. Also, yes, this is not the biggest issue in the world, not claiming that it is. But it is annoying, and a silly thing to happen.

Anyway, I've started to notice that I no longer see men shirtless in public much at all. Obviously I'm excluding the obvious exception of beaches and locker rooms. (Might be other exceptions I'm not thinking of right now). I mean I can't even recall the last time I saw a male jogger shirtless, and that is weird. Construction workers used to go shirtless on hot days. I'm in my mid 60s, so I can definitely recall when men went shirtless if it was convenient. I jog. A long time ago, if it was warm at all, I used to jog shirtless. No more. I live in an apartment. Not too long ago I did step outside without my shirt on. Only went about 10 feet away from my door, and somebody went WOO WOO. I mean WTF!

No, there are no laws stopping you. It just seems to be understood that you do not do that. WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN??? Is this some a$$hat attempt to be sure men don't have any privileges that women do not have? Is this just more insane political correctness? And for those who say if women cannot do it, then men should not be able to do it, like feminists do, I have a question. If there is no difference between the amount of sexuality between the male and female chests, as feminist maintain, then how come a man who grabs a woman's breast without her consent gets charged with SEXUAL assault? I mean if in this matter, men's and women's chest are equal, shouldn't he just be charged with assault? Nobody considers a woman grabbing a man's breast to be sexual assault! So, yes, there is a difference, no matter what feminist say. What do you guys think?


r/MensRights 1h ago

Social Issues As a gay male how do I cope?

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I'm pretty much forced to hang out with the people who accept me which tends to be the left, but the (general) left also expresses hostility towards males. I just want to be treated like a human being and other males to get treated like human beings, not only does misandry hurt me, it hurts me even more seeing other males go through it.


r/MensRights 5h ago

Social Issues The Abyss Gazes Also: Have Men Become the Monsters in the Fight?

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Friedrich Nietzsche cautioned, “Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss, the abyss gazes also into you.” This rings true when looking at modern progressive movements, particularly fourth-wave feminism and "woke" culture. Their goals, equity, justice, safety, sound noble, but the tactics, propaganda, fear-mongering, and silencing dissent, often target men as the problem. Some of these echo Nazi authoritarianism, prompting a question: In battling societal "monsters," have men been cast as the new villains, pushed too far by methods mirroring the ones they claim to oppose?

This isn’t about equating ideologies, Nazism’s genocidal horror is unmatched, but about noting parallels in control and persuasion, especially when ideology merges with institutional power to enforce compliance, hitting men hard.

Propaganda: Simplified Narratives, Men in the Crosshairs

Movements simplify messy truths into emotional rallying cries. The "bear vs. man" debate started as a safety discussion but became "ALL women prefer the bear," framing men as more dangerous than wild animals. It’s propaganda, akin to Nazi slogans like "Ein Volk, ein Reich, ein Führer," stripping nuance to unite and vilify, with men as the target.

This isn’t random noise. Corporate giants like Disney, Nike, and Google bake it into ads and policies, like diversity quotas that can edge men out. Democrats in the U.S., Labour in the UK, the Greens in Germany push it via laws and campaigns, think #MeToo rhetoric, gender equity rules. Nazis had Goebbels controlling media. Today, it’s corporate PR, political platforms, NGOs, and algorithms, a coalition amplifying a narrative that paints men as the enemy. Less dictatorial than Hitler’s crew, maybe, but slick at crafting a fake consensus against men.

Fear-Mongering: Men as the Eternal Threat

Fear drives it, and men bear the brunt. Fourth-wave feminism flags "systemic patriarchy," "toxic masculinity," "rape culture" as ever-present dangers. Stats like "1 in 4 women face assault" blare from NGOs, universities, government PSAs, funded by taxes or corporate dollars. Biden’s team pushes "systemic violence" policies, Europe funds "gender-based harm" drives. It’s not just activists, it’s a system keeping men as the threat, fueling an "men vs. them" divide.

Nazis made Jews the "enemy" through schools, laws, society. For men, it’s not extermination, but the fear engine’s similar, institutional power hyping a vague foe to keep tension high. The targets differ, patriarchy’s abstract, not a group to gas, but the parallel’s in how power sustains a siege mindset against men.

Cancel Culture: Men Silenced by the System

Cancel culture’s no mob, it’s systemic, and men feel it. Gina Carano’s fired by Disney over a tweet, Kathleen Stock’s career tanks for gender questions. HR and universities enforce this, not just outrage, but rules. Germany’s NetzDG pressures platforms to censor "hate speech," often anything men say that bucks the line.

Nazis used Gestapo, blacklists, burnings. Today, it’s social and job loss for men who speak, less violent, but the principle’s there, crush dissent. Both demand purity, no room for men’s nuance. The parallel’s not in brutality, but in power silencing men who stray.

The Establishment’s Role: Men Sidelined

This isn’t fringe, it’s mainstream. Amazon’s DEI, EU gender policies, Hollywood’s feminist reboots, it’s corporate and political core. Nazis had one Führer, total control. Now, it’s CEOs, lawmakers, admins, a spread-out network, but they align, pushing a narrative that marginalizes men with eerie efficiency.

Gazing Back from the Abyss

Nazism sought supremacy, genocide. Progressives aim for equity, change. One’s deadly, the other’s corporate, pervasive, not soaked in blood, but deep in culture, schools, work. Yet, when ideology grabs power, it turns dark. Propaganda, fear, silencing, they choke open talk, especially for men.

Nietzsche asks: In staring at "patriarchy," have progressives reflected the control they hate, casting men as monsters? Have men been dragged too far down a path where dissent’s heresy, conformity’s forced by a web of power? Seeing this isn’t defending old evils, it’s checking if the fight’s pulling men, and everyone, into a new abyss.

Everything Is About Sex, Except Sex, Sex Is About Power

Oscar Wilde quipped, “Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power.” Fourth-wave feminism’s crusade proves it, flipping sex into a battlefield where power’s the prize, and men are losing. The push to "dismantle patriarchy" often means stripping men of influence, jobs, voice, framing masculinity itself as a sin. Marriage rates drop, fatherhood’s mocked, men’s spaces vanish, society frays at the seams. It’s not equality, it’s a power grab, repressing men to keep them down. Nazis crushed groups to dominate, this trend dismantles men’s roles to reshape the world, same game, different stakes. Men aren’t just in the abyss, they’re being held there, powerless.


r/MensRights 12h ago

General Large rise in women wanting to abort male children

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Recently I've seen a huge rise of women saying how they should all start refusing to give birth to males and have an abortion whenever the child is male.

At first I thought it was only a few people saying this, but after doing more searching through communities like the 4b, it's become clear that a large number of women think this way.

"We need to eliminate the key to our struggles--males"

"Don't. Birth. Boys."

"We CANNOT have sons"

"Abort all male babies"

"Why would I want to raise my own oppressor"

These are some of the exact things they have said.

To me this seems like blatant and obvious misandry, they're not even trying to hide it, and there's nothing that can justify it at all.

They believe that outright eliminating males from society is the solution to all their problems. I am deeply sickened by this and feel like this is a topic that seriously needs to be addressed.


r/MensRights 13h ago

Social Issues I’m having anxieties navigating consent

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So I went on a date and at the end I asked if I could kiss her.

While kissing her I ran my hands over her back, ass and boobs. I can see now why this is going too far for some but for my sex life it was a standard thing. When one would go too far the other would break away and tell them to stop that. Like a girl might bite me and I’ll tell her to stop or maybe there’s too much tongue and she’ll tell me to ease up.

I get a text from this girl telling me she didn’t consent to the groping and doesn’t want to talk to me.

I honestly feel awful and went on reddit elsewhere only to be told I’m a creep. And I was a creep, I did something this girl didn’t like and I should’ve asked first.

But now I‘ve got this major anxiety about consent.

I thought I was doing it right, but it seems there’s a lot more on my shoulders than I realised. I use to depend on my partners telling me both yes and no. And I’m worried that I’ll be too in the moment or misread something as pleasure and forget to ask for consent.

Then there’s past experiences where women have told me it was a turn off when I asked as opposed to just using body language, or other times where I’ve done something on instinct and she’s later told me she was glad I picked up on that. That crap just mixes in and confuses me.

We all make slip ups but I didn’t think sexual assault was one of them. How much of consent is my responsibility and how do I do better?


r/MensRights 23h ago

General Is there any country where if I get falsely accused It doesn't destroy my life even if I was found innocent

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Before you ask, no I wasn't falsely accused but I loved in a constant fear of that happening, I love the country i was born and I'm leaving but currently it's very complicated because there are a lot of innocent in jail for this kind of accusations; and no, I'm not searching a country where man have privileges and machismis common, I'm not even looking for a country where I can out in jail someone for injury, i just want to know I won't lose my job or house for a false accusation.

I was planning moving to Canada (still planned because I have family there but want to have a backup plan) but I saw that men from there have same problems.

If there isn't any country like that it's okay, just wanted to be sure.


r/MensRights 7h ago

Progress something i posted will not take for some reason and is on my page.

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have no idea why but something i posted will not take and i was not blocked because i posted something for a little while that took and it was not deleted because it was not up long enough and i only post this because i worked insanely hard on it and i think it is very important for male rights and it can be found on my for lack of a better word blog on this site or click my name bassically i gues sis what i intend to say...

this should be about male rights and how we can better sersue a better future and create a better identity for men and male children and also for transgender people...

not only that it goes into various different issues and especially circumcision also known as child genital mutilation and the wave of transphobia sweeping over the country in recentb years and how both conservativism and feminism has hurt men and society and what we should do as a result of this...

this also talks about the male identity and how it can be imporoved and does not get as detailed as i liked but as i talked about above it is a lot about that also if anybody is interested.


r/MensRights 20h ago

General Sexual Dysfunction

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Has anyone noticed how differently it’s viewed between men and women?

For instance if a man has trouble ejaculating or getting hard it’s always the same half cocked (pun intended) stuff.

‘Oh it’s death grip, you wank too hard’

I mean, it’s a now a medical syndrome for gripping your penis. I mean the other response could be ‘work on your kegels love there’s no traction on the tyres’

‘Porn addiction’

I mean, I guess but it seems like a cop out of an answer.

‘You’re masturbating too much’

Been doing it since I was 12, there’s no way I could possibly masturbate too much. I’ve reached super saiyan levels of mastubatory perfection.

However a woman has issues it’s never

‘Try putting down that 8,000v vibrating cock machine’

If I said I’d got a Swedish super suck 9,000 with tingling haemorrhoid simulator I’d be sick.

No medical syndrome for having something rattling your clitoris at breakneck speed…

Or

‘Maybe you just need to be more romantic to him outside the bedroom, maybe put the kids to bed, make sure the dishes are done. Give him time to relax’

‘It’s no wonder he can’t ejaculate when you berate him constantly, be kind, give him cuddles, sit down and watch Mythbusters with him’

‘Give his fart box a tickle’

I dunno, men have got to feel guilty about wanking now.

Wank syndrome.


r/MensRights 12h ago

Discrimination Men are facing widespread misandry.

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I use to think that many of the women that attack men are radical feminists however I now think it’s just plain old hatred of men.

Women (especially young women) have internalised men are bad. These women have been free to do as they please to retaliate against men for this ‘badness’ because quite simply the environment allows it and encourages it (e.g. courts being lenient with women… There’s many cases of this recently).

The media industry, government, entertainment industry and pretty much all domains at this point have been infected whereby they tolerate the abuse of men and even enable it.

So next time you think you’re dealing with a radical feminist that is concerned with doing away with the patriarchy and seek equality then maybe double check and ask yourself ‘is this just plain old male hatred’?…

Do you guys think the same at this point? It doesn’t strike me as purposeful aggression for an aim (e.g. suffragette terrorist activities for greater equality)… It just comes across as hatred from extremely entitled women because they truly do believe men are bad from all the internalised messaging. Thoughts?


r/MensRights 6h ago

mental health How to detect manipulation

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This article talks about how we can understand the real motivations behind behaviors, including the manipulative power plays men often deal with in relationships with women.

https://www.mg-counseling.com/blog/secrets-of-understanding-motivations-counseling-men-texas


r/MensRights 1d ago

Legal Rights Off-duty NYPD officer gets five years probation for fatal DUI crash killing husband

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https://ag.ny.gov/press-release/2025/attorney-general-james-announces-guilty-plea-former-nypd-officer-criminally

Attorney General James Announces Guilty Plea of Former NYPD Officer for Criminally Negligent Homicide

Bernadine Ramtahal-Thomas Was Off-Duty and Driving at High Speeds on the Palisades Interstate Parkway After Consuming Alcohol When She Struck a Tree, Causing Her Husband’s Death

February 3, 2025

NEW YORK – New York Attorney General Letitia James today announced the guilty plea of former New York City Police Department (NYPD) Officer Bernadine Thomas, 36, of Maybrook, Orange County for causing her husband’s death while driving at speeds of up to 109 MPH with a blood alcohol content of .10 on the Palisades Interstate Parkway in Rockland County on February 26, 2023. Thomas pleaded guilty today to Criminally Negligent Homicide before County Court Judge Kevin Russo in Rockland County.

Thomas will remain out on bail until sentencing on May 7, 2025. For pleading guilty to the charge of Criminally Negligent Homicide, she will serve five years’ probation. Thomas has waived her right to appeal.

In the early morning hours of February 26, 2023, Thomas, who was off-duty at the time, was driving northbound with her husband in the passenger seat on the Palisades Interstate Parkway when their car went off the road and struck a tree. Mr. Thomas was declared dead at the scene.

Pursuant to New York State Executive Law Section 70-b, OSI assesses every incident reported to it where a police officer or a peace officer, including a corrections officer, may have caused the death of a person by an act or omission. Under the law, the officer may be on-duty or off-duty, and the decedent may be armed or unarmed. Also, the decedent may or may not be in custody or incarcerated. If OSI’s assessment indicates an officer may have caused the death, OSI proceeds to conduct a full investigation of the incident.

2007: Queens: Man Sentenced for Crash That Killed Wife - 4 to 12 year prison sentence

2012: NY man gets prison for DWI deaths of son, woman - 7 to 21 year prison sentence

2015: Designated Driver Faces Prison for DWI; 3 Passengers Hurt - 1.5 to 4.5 years

2017: Amherst Man Sentenced For Deadly DWI Crash - 2 to 6 years

2021: LI Man Receives Prison Sentence After DWI Crash Kills Passenger: DA - 2.75 to 8.25 year prison sentence

2023: Manhattan Man Sentenced to 7 Years in Prison for DWI Crash that Paralyzed Passenger - 7 years prison

2024: Queens Man Sentenced to Up to 7 ½ Years in Prison for Killing Passenger in Drunk Driving Crash - 2.5 to 7.5 years


r/MensRights 1h ago

Social Issues Teacher, 29, who was convicted of persistent sexual abuse of a child, grooming, committing an act of indecency and supplying pornographic material to a young person, was sentenced to a 1 year 11 month community-based sentence, and fined $1000. [pussypass]

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r/MensRights 10h ago

General Which countries require military service for women? – DW

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r/MensRights 1h ago

Do horrified viewers of the fictional Netflix series ‘Adolescence’ care about real adolescent boys? — The Centre for Male Psychology

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r/MensRights 2h ago

General Woman whose rape lies got innocent man jailed receives disgustingly light sentence

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"A Pennsylvania woman who falsely accused an innocent man of trying to rape and kidnap her has been sentenced to less than two years in prison.

Anjela Borisova Urumova, 20, filed a false police report against 41-year-old Daniel Pierson. The claims landed Pierson in jail for a month on a $1million bail and he was charged with multiple felonies." (Daily Mail)


r/MensRights 9h ago

Activism/Support How to counter media and so called experts brainwashing?

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I am from Ethiopia and i was hearing an interview about Ethiopias war and famine for the last 7 years and a professor who was interviewed said that for the last 7 years only women and children suffered from war and famine. He said men can hunt and eat while women can’t, imagine for the last 7 years of war in Ethiopia most men and boy get conscripted and they are last in food and water supply, men and boys are also most likely than women and girls to get killed by armed personnel. while all the professor said only women and children suffered, how to counter this kinds of misinformations? I already replied to his article on google website but they will like delete it because it says “ you comment is awaiting moderation”. How can any man say this against his own gender? Especially educated professor? How to counter it?


r/MensRights 14h ago

Social Issues Adolescence - A critical point of view

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I've seen a wave of posts and comments lately framing Adolescence as a straightforward critique of toxic masculinity and the corrupting influence of figures like Andrew Tate. While I understand where that interpretation comes from, I think it's also dangerously reductive and honestly, a missed opportunity for a much deeper conversation.

Yes, Jamie’s behavior is disturbing. Yes, themes of entitlement, rejection, and control are present. But if we only look at this story through the lens of patriarchal violence or misogyny, we risk ignoring the broader, more complex crisis that many young men are currently living through.

The reality is that Adolescence is not just about “bad boys” who feel entitled to girls. It’s about a generation of boys growing up in emotional isolation, without male role models compatible with today's society, without emotional literacy, and without any cultural script for vulnerability, failure, or even basic connection and often bullied by other teens. It’s about boys who spend their youth online, absorbing warped ideas about sex and identity, while feeling completely invisible in real life.

Many of the young men who fall into incel or redpill ideology aren't just angry or hateful. They’re lost. And significantly, there's a disproportionately high presence of neurodivergent individuals in those communities: boys and young white men with autism, ADHD, social anxiety, or depression. These are often people who struggle with social interaction, who’ve been rejected repeatedly, and who feel they have no place in a society that increasingly communicates in emotional codes they can't decode.

Reducing all of this to Andrew Tate is absurd. Men — especially young men — are not a monolith. In fact, men are arguably the most demographically diverse group on the planet, across race, class, neurotype, and life experience. Treating them as if they’re all equally "privileged" or inherently dangerous just because they're male is both lazy and counterproductive.

Yes, we need to call out misogyny (and we should do the same towards misandry). But we also need to recognize that if you offer young men nothing but shame and blame, don’t be surprised if some of them end up clinging to the first ideology that offers them a sense of belonging — even if it's toxic.

So maybe Adolescence isn’t just a story about male violence. Maybe it's also a story about what happens when society — including progressive movements like feminism — fails to address male pain with anything more than contempt or silence.

I’m not here to defend what Jamie represents in the show. But I am here to say that if all we take away from this show is “toxic masculinity is bad,” then we’re not just missing the point — we’re avoiding the hard questions entirely.