Women who represent themselves as clubbers in their dating profiles - holding alcoholic drinks in many photos, pupils as big as the moon - are clearly not clubbers with substance abuse problems. Perfectly stable people, well adjusted, and ready for adult long term relationships.
My apologies for being a dick about it. You seem legit nice in your reply so I’ll do the same.
You’re right on all accounts. I am not the type of person to gamble on a person whose profile pics are all about living the clubbing life, however.
I avoided all girls whose profiles seem to represent that all they do is “club hop.” And it served my quite well. I am very happily engaged with a fellow extrovert who also shares my same perspectives. Neither of us are drinkers, smokers, or do recreational drugs at all (but I strongly support the decriminalization of recreational drugs). Both of us enjoy our work and work hard. We both love each other a lot. We are not perfect and we do have disagreements but none are serious. We both do not get along with people who are all about the “club scene.”
Even if I was single, I would never swipe right or like a profile of what I call a “club girl.” Not my type. Never will be. Plenty of people to choose from so I never have to be with a person like that.
I will say that the type of girl who wants to portray themselves as a “club girl” in a dating app is not the type of person I would want to form a relationship with. You nailed it.
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