Hey guys, throwaway because I'm quite embarrassed about this. Apologies in advance if this is not the right subreddit for this; if so please guide me as to where I can go.
I'm wanting some advice on what actions / steps my family can take to reduce their financial burdens and devise an actionable plan to help improve our financial situation. For context, I am a 23 year old medical student living at home with his two immigrant parents that are approaching retirement age with little to no retirement savings and no home ownership (renting for the past 20+ years).
Mum has been an owner-operator of a small shop that has not been doing too well since COVID and is planning to sell it in the foreseeable future. She is currently what one can consider the "breadwinner" as she brings in most of the money to pay for utilities, bills, groceries and rent.
I don't even really know what dad does, but he earns around $2000 a month doing what I think is self-employed online marketing and import trade with small companies in South Korea. He also works at the shop with mum to reduce labour costs (wages) and help with accounting and advertising.
My brother and sister, both living away from home, are doing well in their STEM careers and have excellent paying jobs so I am not worried about them at all. However, they do the best they can do help support my parents financially from afar.
My biggest trouble is that we've been on the financial backfoot for so long and I'm becoming increasingly frustrated by it as I grow older and face the reality of our situation. It's been a multiplex of events that have led to this current situation (dad selling the house to save his failing business ventures with multiple failed ventures in the following years --> mum having to start working to feed the family --> dad becoming comfortable living above his means and living in denial).
Mum and dad have become quite socially isolated out of embarrassment of their situation and rely heavily one each other for support. They feel as if they've become stuck in this situation and don't see any way out. Day-to-day comfort masks the true reality of the situation, which is that assets and cash are not growing with time and that the only way to keep living is to keep working until the end of time.
Although we're not at the point of worrying if we will be able to eat or pay off important bills, my mum especially is becoming very worn out as she works tirelessly and she can't keep this up forever. Dad is stuck in a perpetual loop of promising that his work projects will pay well only for them to fall through, living above his means (European car that is expensive to maintain, expensive groceries, buying random things online that he doesn't need).
I feel unable to address these issues with my parents as the youngest sibling of three so I feel quite stuck.
The questions I have are:
what can I personally do to help them out? household duties?
practical ways to save money on groceries and utilities as a family?
how I can approach my parents to devise an actionable plan for retirement and beyond?
is home ownership even worth it at this stage?
Thank you in advance.