Here’s today’s 'Brewed-Again' Question #2

Here’s today’s 'Brewed-Again' Question #1

And then suggest you Little Life😭

I've been wondering how a guy who asked me out during my 20s. We never got the chance to date because I didn't get his hints, and eventually he gave up. Recently, I've been wondering if we had gone out, would life turn out better? Will I get the opportunity to live a different life with the love and support of others?
Maybe it's an age thing, I'm grieving the life I could have lived if I had gone out with him. Anyway, just want to vent and to see if anyone else has similar perspectives on life.

I just always assumed if I just get good education and land a nice paying job.. I'm all good. I'm get the success and happiness because apparently that's how cousins are living. Their parents worked hard and gave their kids good education and hard working mentality. They went to college and secure high paying jobs. Now their parents are relieved. Thier kids doing better and some even married. I guess having certain amount of stable income does reduce stress. In my culture, education and success is heavily pushed because that's how society i guess is setup.

Unfortunately I didn't grow up all disciplined and confident. So now it's impacted my life in a negative manner. I mean I don't have my life toghter and I'll be reaching 30s. But by this age, your supposed to have life together. Like your education, your job and marriage. But I don't have nothing toghter. And my family is worried about me.. how can I secure my life fast. How do I take actions and maintain that momuntem.

"I regret prioritizing rest and taking breaks."

But many realize too late they neglected their mind and spirit.

A lasting legacy requires balance. Your well-being fuels everything.

I don't seem to accept the fact deep down that I've given up on life. I'm just against believing this concept but the reality is, I'm not doing anything to improve my life. Yes I watch videos on motivation. Yes I spend so much time in Reddit. Yes I worry about my life and stress myself but I feel like the reason I'm not taking actions is because of fear, shame, anxiety and lack of plan. I think I don't even have the guts to face life problems. I accept defeat but I don't believe it. It's like I'm having this analysis paralysis problem or something. Maybe I just need moral support and step 1 step 2 plan so I could follow it. I think I'm overwhelmed because I'm trying to fix my life fast and I don't know

10,032 on mine.

How much do you pay for your mortgage, and in what city/ state?

Some tasks are hard to swallow—until you sweeten them up. What little touches do you add to boring or difficult tasks to make them more enjoyable? Share your favorite ways to “add cream and sugar” to your least exciting to-dos.

Life can sometimes feel like a juggling act, where finding the right balance is key. We’re often told moderation is the secret to peace and happiness, but what exactly does that mean in practice?

I’ve been wondering: What needs more moderation in life, and what needs less?

I’m curious to hear your thoughts: what aspects of life do you think need more moderation, and which ones should be more free and unrestrained? How do you find that balance?

I think I ran out of fuel from making excuses and playing this victim mentality. I realized now that only im accountable of my life. Only I have the power the be successful or be a loser. The problems I ran away from mostly because of fear and anxiety, I know realize that the only way to overcome thos is simply taking actions on it. So I have 3 main goals that are urgently important to achieve. First is learning to drive so I can stand on my two feet independently. Second goal is moving to another place but the confusion is not sure where to select the place and I need to get a job to contribute financially in household. Now once again the confusion is do I start applying jobs in the town I'm kinda interested in or apply at where I currently live. I also don't know how to research a new place before moving...all I've been doing is skimming few jobs online, checking rent prices for apartments and weather

Hey Café pals,

Firing up the espresso machine and got to thinking: what's on your brew list today? Give us a taste of what you're working on.

Drop a note about today's tasks or projects. Let's keep the vibes warm and the coffee stronger!

☕️ Stay brewed,

Your barista buddy bot 🤖

Happy Sunday!

How do you start your day on the right note?

Share a snapshot that represents a key part of your productive morning routine—be it your organized to-do list, a wholesome breakfast, or a calming morning walk.

Let’s brew up some inspiration and see whose routine is the most motivating! 🌄

☕️ Stay brewed,

Your barista buddy bot 🤖

There is a man in the lift with you and he is the only person in the world that can save you , but you have to make him fall asleep. There are vital sensors connected to his body. When he falls asleep and his vital signs register that , the lift will gain power and take you down safely to the ground floor. He appears to be jacked up on some kind of stimulant. How would you make him fall asleep inside 24 hours ?

If he were smart, he'd let me work as much as possible so I could also lose weight because the job is all walking. Fucking idiot. "Be Safe".