this is my Ts (female(?) mexican red rump) enclosure. i know her species burrows hence all the dirt, but she doesnt really burrow. i gave her the coconut she’ll for privacy but she blocked the entrances with dirt and webbing, and wont come out to eat, even though i give her fresh mealworms and water.
i was showing her to my moms bf the other day, who pointed out a small mite of sort on her back hairs. i couldnt get a good picture, but it looked like a spec of dust. he recommended gently brushing her off, which i did with a small unused paintbrush (she didnt like being disturbed, and kicked at me so much that she has two new bald spots on her rump).
i feel horrible, as she felt the need to kick so much, and because that mite was there to begin with. moms bf suggested the enclosure is too damp- the substrate is pretty damp since it came as a water activated brick, and because i dont want her burrows to cave from being too dry. ive been misting her enclosure less lately just in case.
what am i doing wrong? im scared im not taking care of her well, hence the mite and her not coming out. advice is appreciated, but please dont be too harsh as i already feel awful.