Hi everyone, I’m 25 and recently made the decision to go back to school to pursue an accounting degree. I enjoyed accounting in high school, and I’ve been putting in a lot of effort to prepare myself—especially working on my writing, which I’ve always found challenging. I even reached out to a tutor I had after high school to help me get ready for the upcoming academic year. I got accepted already.
In our most recent class, she mentioned that she sees me in a career that involves working with my hands. I didn’t think much of it in the moment, but it stuck with me. Later on, I messaged her to ask if she thought I wasn’t cut out for accounting or university.
My Message:
HI,
I want to start off by saying I really appreciate your help and guidance. I’ve been thinking about what you said earlier in class about seeing me in a career that involves working with my hands. I’m feeling unsure and worried that you might think I’m not cut out for an accounting degree or a career as an accountant because of my writing challenges.
Do you still think accounting is something I could succeed in?
Her Reply:
"My comment had absolutely nothing to do with your ability/being cut out for accounting. In fact, I’d argue that an “accountant” doesn’t need highly academic writing skills. It’s down to logic, problem solving and math.
It was more a comment related to not picturing you in an “office” environment, stuck behind a screen 5 days a week.
You can succeed in anything you put your mind to and want. You may find that through the business courses, you don’t even like accounting. Don’t put yourself in a box. It’s the way our Tamil parents make it.
Also - if you recall last week I did tell you that I didn’t think the grade 12 assessment was fair. I wouldn’t have made a comment as such and then turn around and say something related to your writing challenges.
That being said , let me know if I can clarify further. To ensure you feel comfortable. It’s important that your “tutor” believes in your skill set or there’s no point."
I’m looking for some advice or perspective. Has anyone else gone back to school later in life and struggled with self-doubt or comments from people they trust?