Just a rant. There’s this girl I met on Hinge. We talked for a bit and at some point she asked me if I wanted to meet up. I said yes, and we agreed to see each other over the weekend. The weekend comes, and I text her to ask what time she wants to meet. She only replies when it’s basically already evening, saying she has to work and can’t make it. She didn’t even say sorry or anything. We had confirmed the plan, and I had made time for it, so it kind of sucked that she let me know so late. I let it go and didn’t talk to her after that.
Fast forward I randomly run into her at a concert, and she even gets called up on stage. That was the first time I saw her in real life and I was like bruuuh, omg. After the concert, I walked up to her and we spoke briefly. She told me I was beautiful and said, “for some reason you were on my mind.” When I got home, I texted her: “you’re even prettier in real life.” She replied, “you too,” and then said, “so when are we hanging out?” I decided to give it another chance. She mentioned she can’t meet during the week, only on weekends. So I suggested Saturday. She never responded.
She did reply to a story I posted on Sunday though. I responded normally, but I still found it weird that she initiated the whole “let’s hang out” thing and then just never followed up. So eventually I asked her, “what’s up with you?” and she never replied to that either. But she still views my stories, and for some reason she removed me from hers because I can’t see her highlights anymore.
I honestly don’t get why some people act like this. I have no idea what could possibly be going through her head or why she’s doing this. I feel kind of disrespected. And what really baffles me is that she was the one who asked to hang out — twice — and then pulls this weird behavior. I’m kinda bummed because she seemed like a genuinely interesting person to connect with, and she’s honestly so, so pretty. But oh well… sigh.
