r/adhdwomen • u/AsleepYellow3 • 3d ago

Meme Therapy Is this why I’m somewhat stable?

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So I still live with my parents because I can’t afford to live comfortably in my own country. I feel like my life is somewhat structured because I do a lot of things because I’m in my parent’s house. But I can’t help but think I would be on the right side of I could live by my own means.

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u/yoimiya175430 3d ago

As the person who was undiagnosed and moved out of their parents house, I can confirm I am the person on the right side - which was the reason I went for a diagnosis in the first place... When I look back, my controlled environment was both the reason for a lot of stress but also the perfect stress to stay in the somehow functional range

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u/rbuczyns 2d ago

For me it was having someone else plan and chill meals, drive me around, and make sure I was on time 😂 but now I have to do all that PLUS have a job? Nah