Hello family! Married gay Christian here who has been attending a local ELCA church for about a year now (and love it!!). I’m still unlearning a lot of toxic fundamentalism and evangelicalism from my upbringing and early young adult years. the area mentioned in the title is one that I haven’t fully reconstructed - but I’m curious to learn more about. I was just talking with a more conservative friend about it, and realized I don’t really have a solid opinion on it like I used to. Being married now it doesn’t affect me as much but Im still interested in forming more of an ethical opinion on it.
So, to those more seasoned in the mainline / gay affirming denominations, be it ELCA, episcopal, etc, what are your guys views on porn, sexual content, hookups, and sex outside of marriage? To be clear, I definitely believe that casual sex and hookups are basically always sinful (and regardless, not beneficial). As for sex outside of marriage in general, I think in a committed , serious relationship it’s fine as that’s kinda what marriages were back in the biblical authors days anyway. With porn, anything mass produced and associated with that industry is definitely immoral for a lot of reasons irrespective of the content (abuse of women, trafficking, etc); but when it comes to self made content and art, I honestly don’t really know what to think about it morally. I don’t really see an issue but I’m curious to see other views on it from folks that aren’t fundie and evangelical, lol.
I appreciate any insight and response, thank you!