r/travel • u/kobeburner • 2d ago
Images First and Maybe Last Visit to India?
I’ve only visited 18 countries and even though the historical buildings, architecture, and cuisine were incredible, I have little desire to return to India.
As a fairly tall Black American male I stood out among everyone. I was grabbed often, all by men, stared at for an ungodly length of time, and just generally felt overwhelmed and uncomfortable there. The staring is next level. It’s not a glance. It’s a purposeful observation that continues indefinitely. At one point a man was looking at me from a few feet away. I moved to block his view then he moved to get closer to me to continue the gawking.
The poverty is disturbing and the absurd amount of garbage is nightmare fuel for environmentalists. Locals don’t seem to care much about the cleanliness in the urban areas. Watched several people willingly throw trash into the street from apartments and train cars. Why do they do this?
On the other hand, the Taj Mahal is incredible. Easily the most fascinating part of our trip. We’ve been to 6 new world wonders, 7 if we include the Pyramids of Giza, and the TM is in my top 2 with Petra being the best.
Walking through the gate and seeing the mausoleum in the background bathing in the morning light was like stepping into a fairy tale land. We loved it so much, we returned for a second day. There are rooftop bars and restaurants too with incredible views and inexpensive food and booze.
My suggestion visiting India would be to ensure everything is private. Transportation, guides, etc. The logistics can be a pain so the peace of mind of having everything taken care of for you is worth the cost imo.
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u/Mitaslaksit 2d ago
Well, my husband is 6'3 and blonde and was stared at all the time plus everyone wanted a picture with him. It's unfathomable to us that there are so many ppl in India and for most a different looking person is a first. The garbage is truly an issue but if nothing is done by the big bosses, nothing happens on lower levels. Most are too poor to care about environmental issues.
That being said, India is incredible and I will probably go back a thrid time. I live very comfortably there, no roughing it and eat in good restaurants. Fucking amazing.
Use Uber always and for longer trips hire a driver. It's still veeeery cheap compared to what you'd pay back home.
India has all my adhd brain craves!