r/travel • u/kobeburner • 2d ago
Images First and Maybe Last Visit to India?
I’ve only visited 18 countries and even though the historical buildings, architecture, and cuisine were incredible, I have little desire to return to India.
As a fairly tall Black American male I stood out among everyone. I was grabbed often, all by men, stared at for an ungodly length of time, and just generally felt overwhelmed and uncomfortable there. The staring is next level. It’s not a glance. It’s a purposeful observation that continues indefinitely. At one point a man was looking at me from a few feet away. I moved to block his view then he moved to get closer to me to continue the gawking.
The poverty is disturbing and the absurd amount of garbage is nightmare fuel for environmentalists. Locals don’t seem to care much about the cleanliness in the urban areas. Watched several people willingly throw trash into the street from apartments and train cars. Why do they do this?
On the other hand, the Taj Mahal is incredible. Easily the most fascinating part of our trip. We’ve been to 6 new world wonders, 7 if we include the Pyramids of Giza, and the TM is in my top 2 with Petra being the best.
Walking through the gate and seeing the mausoleum in the background bathing in the morning light was like stepping into a fairy tale land. We loved it so much, we returned for a second day. There are rooftop bars and restaurants too with incredible views and inexpensive food and booze.
My suggestion visiting India would be to ensure everything is private. Transportation, guides, etc. The logistics can be a pain so the peace of mind of having everything taken care of for you is worth the cost imo.
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u/Roadgoddess 2d ago
As a tall blonde woman, I can tell you that you are not isolated in this experience. The other thing I would have happen is people would immediately shove their children into my arms and then asked to have the picture taken with me. When I was actually trekking in Bhutan, There would be scores of Indian soldiers that they provide for defence that would stop me in the mountains about every 25 feet to have their pictures taken with me. It got to be quite funny. I said to my parents I feel like my pictures are spread all over the Indian barracks.
I often say that India is a country that people are not neutral on, they either love it or hate it. There is no middle ground, no “ it was OK”. It’s definitely a place that assaults your senses.
I also wanted to add that your photos are stunning ! Thank you for sharing.