r/videos May 30 '17

This guy's presentation on ADHD is excellent

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=JowPOqRmxNs
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u/Silencedmike May 30 '17

I have the exact same state of mind, and it genuinely scares the shit out of me

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u/[deleted] May 30 '17

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u/Hellknightx May 30 '17

ADD is often coupled with anxiety/depression, but not always. The "inevitability" of not dealing with future consequences is more of the latter.

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u/JMJimmy May 30 '17

The co-morbidity of anxiety/depression is about 11% each or 9% for both. Not exactly "often" but it can be associated

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u/[deleted] May 30 '17

these comments are blowing my mind how much they describe me

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u/Degru May 30 '17

My mind is blown there are people replying to mine with literally the exact same thing!

And yet I've never met someone IRL like me in this respect.

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u/svenhoek86 May 30 '17

Maybe I should set this video's audio as an alarm. Every morning I will awaken to existential dread and shame that will follow me throughout the day and either force me to change or do an hero.

Either way the suffering is ended.

Also, yes, I'm joking, please don't spam my inbox with the suicide hotline number or essays on how I'm not alone.

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u/wisdom_possibly May 31 '17

It's only a fucked up mindset if you first assume it's a fucked up mindset.

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u/LookMaNoPride May 30 '17

Seems ironic to not get upset or stressed out about things unless you're thinking about how you never get upset or stressed out about things.

I'm so pissed off about how I never get angry! I love it when I have no love.

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u/[deleted] May 30 '17

What scares me the most is that I think I might have an EFD, or I might just be a procrastinator, but either way that would mean making an appointment with my family doctor to get a psych referral, then an appointment with that doctor. The thought of doing that gives me a sense of anxiety, shame and I just want to defer it to later.

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u/spell__icup May 31 '17

Where do you live? If you have access to your insurance providers customer​service hotline, they will tell you which psychiatrists in your area are covered by them. You call their office and mention that you want an initial consultation and they will get you in. The laws are almost certainly different where you are but there are options to take care of your mental health that do not require anyone you don't feel comfortable with involved until you decide they should be.

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u/[deleted] May 31 '17

Canada, the only way to access a psychiatrist is through the process I described.

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u/spell__icup Jun 01 '17

I see. That feeling of anxiety and shame is the same I felt before initial consultations with every psychiatrist I met with last year when begining to care for my ADHD. With my current doctor, I just feel excited for each session and the changes I'm seeing.

It is not going to be easy but trust me, after sitting in that chair for about 3-5 minutes and you'll forget about the anxiety that held you back. Good luck!