r/videos May 30 '17

This guy's presentation on ADHD is excellent

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=JowPOqRmxNs
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u/muddywater87 May 30 '17

I was actually diagnosed with ADHD when I was 4 back in 1991. I always thought it was bullshit. Im now 30, I can see all the symptoms and I have to be very conscious of them. My short term memory, distracted easily, and I felt chills when this guy described perfectly the shit that happens to me. My parents never put me on drugs. Back in the early 90's it was riddelin. I just had to learn to deal with it. Now i just carry a small notebook around with lists and notes. It helps a lot, as long as I rememebr to look at it.

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u/_sarahmichelle May 30 '17

Haha. I was going to say everyone suggests lists and notes to me but it's a miracle to get me to remember to look at them.

Similar-ish story. My teachers mentioned to my parents when I was around 4 or 5 that I had trouble paying attention and focusing in class but since I wasn't hyper it was nothing to worry about.

Struggled through every year of school, dropped out of college twice, blah blah blah but I could never figure out why I struggled so much. I just thought I was stupid and hated school because of it.

Guess who just got diagnosed with ADHD at 28?

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u/Fastgirl600 May 30 '17

Try a phone calendar with reminders

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u/bmxking28 May 30 '17

This x1000! It has saved my sanity

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u/_sarahmichelle May 30 '17

Yep. I finally had the sense to set a biweekly reminder to change my contacts. It's set to pop up on my screen in time for me to wake up and works like a dream.

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u/Fastgirl600 May 30 '17

That's a good one... very important you don't want an infection.

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u/_sarahmichelle May 30 '17

I was never very far off so I wasn't entering infection-prone territory. It was more "shit, did I change them last week or the week before?" Or "I know I changed them the week before last but was it Monday or Friday of that week?"

This way, I wake up every other Monday with a notification on my phone that I need to change them and I don't have to spend any energy worrying about trying to remember.

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u/Fastgirl600 May 30 '17

That's exactly what I do about a thousand little things so that I know what I've done and what I have to do with reminders. Set it and off my mind.

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u/Fastgirl600 May 30 '17

Well I'm glad you found something that works for you... that's really what it's about.

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u/dustybizzle May 30 '17

I use Google Keep for notes (including the 3 item lists for when I go to the store and forget why I'm there, ffs), and my phone alarm for reminders that are absolutely crucial (like the 3 days in a row I forgot to pick up my sister-in-law's dog on the way home after work, ffs)

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u/Fastgirl600 May 30 '17

That's a great idea kudos!

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u/dustybizzle May 30 '17

Appreciate the tip from you as well!