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Anyone invite their child caretakers to family events?
This is the way!
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Anyone else a low supplier despite doing “everything”
Yep. Even Reglan only got me from 4 oz per day to 6. I quit after four months and my 19 month old is now thriving. Some things are just out of our control.
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Supply at 5 weeks pp. What am I doing wrong?
Love this. I wasted so much money and time on all the supplements, parts, and pumps and it made no difference. What mattered was putting down the pump and snuggling my baby.
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Supplementing with formula in the days after birth may not impact breastfeeding success later
And they have the audacity to call this “baby friendly.”
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Best TTC tips?
Agree with the fertility clinic waitlist. It took me three months to get my first appointment.
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Any advice to help me build up my milk supply??? I’m desperate
I can’t remember how long I was on it - I think 3 or maybe six weeks. It was a taper dose. It upped my supply from about 4 oz per day to 6, then it went back down when I finished it. I didn’t ask for a refill so I don’t know if they would have given one.
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Any advice to help me build up my milk supply??? I’m desperate
Have you had bloodwork done recently? It’s possible it’s hormonal or medical, like retained placenta.
You’ve already gotten good advice AND it sounds like you’re doing everything right. I had a very similar experience, producing single digit ounces daily even with Reglan. I had a hard time letting go of breastfeeding but ultimately decided when my baby was hospitalized with RSV at four months. All that mattered was holding her and I’d be damned if a pump was going to get between us for a couple ounces.
I hope you find answers because I know how frustrating it is when my body wouldn’t do the thing I felt it was supposed to. I still don’t exactly know why I produced so little - maybe my PCOS.
Keep trying as long as you need to but also give yourself permission to let go for your own mental health. Time with baby, adequate rest, and a happy mom are just as important as breast milk!
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Are cast iron pans the safest cookware?
Not my second degree burn still healing 6 weeks later 😣
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Would you run a day care to stay home with your kids?
She should try working at an established daycare for a while and see just how easy it is. Your husband too, see how simple “wiping butts” is for 12 children!
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What sponsors do y’all notice mixed in?
Millville cereal and Clancy’s chips!
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Our brains are filling with more and more microplastics, study shows
So many steam in bag veggies in my childhood…
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What's a habit you started with your toddler that you now regret?
I know some adults who won’t poop without their cell phone!
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What is the one product you thought buying the expensive one was a waste of money, until you got it?
I’m about to have my second round of gum grafting ($3000 each) because night grinding has receded my gums so bad, and I’m only in my thirties. I so wish I had listened sooner and worn the damn bite guard every night!
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What popular character/toy can you just NOT stand?
Yes, the Eric Litwin ones are best.
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What popular character/toy can you just NOT stand?
Can you even call those songs? The other day we were deep in a Raffi Spotify channel and an unlistenable track came on and I immediately knew it must be Blippi.
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How are we handling norovirus?
I have no evidence if it helps, but when I worked in daycare we were told to mask up to change poopy diapers (and always gloves for diaper changes).
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What small parenting tip has saved you a headache recently?
My toddler loves this and I say “fluffy fluffy” while I do it.
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what’s your nanny icks?
I see nannies do this all the time in their job seeking posts, and I know a lot of families might not care but it just screams unprofessional.
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Practical info you wish you had known before becoming a parent
Our pediatrician recommended it for our formula fed daughter too. I think it was if she gets less than 30oz a day.
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Yes, there’s been research that young children benefit from limited toys. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/singletons/201712/study-underscores-why-fewer-toys-is-the-better-option?amp
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How did frank end up in mexico?
He lives on the fringes of society.
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Holiday bonus megathread
I glanced at the check, thought it said $500, and thought “wow awesome!” Then I saw the 1 in front and was floored. My family is the best!
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I read that it’s better for a baby to have a dead parent, rather than sleep trained w/ CIO
I think there are probably benefits to the child as well having quiet, low stimulation alone time even if they don’t sleep.
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I read that it’s better for a baby to have a dead parent, rather than sleep trained w/ CIO
That’s what I don’t get about the “baby learns you’ll ignore them and that’s why they stop crying” argument. We did Ferber at around 8 months and now, 8 months later, my daughter will still cry about once a week and just need cuddles to fall back asleep. She also would cry when she still needed MOTN feeds.
I’m a way more patient and engaged mom now that I’m getting more sleep!
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I love the Pura Kiki. My daughter struggled at first with no handles but the Dr. Brown’s bottle handles can squeeze on fine.