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Does this aquarium stand look sturdy enough for a 20 gallon tank?
 in  r/woodworking  4d ago

Highly recommend heavy duty adjustable feet or shims for leveling during install. Both before and after adding water

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Ran into Erik van Conover this morning in NYC… and he wanted to fight 😅
 in  r/nycinfluencersnarking  23d ago

He just ran over a police officer in NH, so I think he'll be spending plenty of time in mandatory care

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Ran into Erik van Conover this morning in NYC… and he wanted to fight 😅
 in  r/nycinfluencersnarking  23d ago

He just ran over a police officer in NH. I think he'll be behind bars for the next 5 to 10 years.

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AIO for ending a friendship because his girlfriend read our conversations?
 in  r/AmIOverreacting  29d ago

NOR. I would end that friendship over this. Say my peace, let them know that I will be blocking them and not to contact me and move on with my life.

Lack of boundaries and respect isn't anything that I need in my life.

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US President threatening a governor
 in  r/facepalm  Feb 22 '25

I think New England and PNW should do that today.

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US President threatening a governor
 in  r/facepalm  Feb 22 '25

Maine went to war over potatoes. I wouldn't be threatening them. Plus most of New England pays more federal funding than they receive. Maine Governor should have said. Keep your funding, we're through.

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Salary depression
 in  r/devops  Jan 16 '25

Unless it's a lisianthus.

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Salary depression
 in  r/devops  Jan 16 '25

I was laid off a year ago. I've had plenty of interviews, but I seem to be getting passed up for younger/cheaper hires. At this point, I'm close to starting my own tech company.

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What’s a comfort meal from your childhood that you still make today?
 in  r/Cooking  Dec 29 '24

I'm on the spectrum, so all of it. Celeste pizzas, dino nuggies, Campbell's raviolis, tostinos, peanut butter crackers, zebra cakes. (This isn't my standard diet. I just have one or two of these always around.)

Some comfort foods I can no longer eat. Spaghetti-O's, Kraft Mac & Cheese, bagel bites.

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Oh dear. Any way moving on.
 in  r/facepalm  Dec 22 '24

And that snowflake was Elon Musk

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What advice do you have for a young man who struggles a lot with women?
 in  r/AskMenOver30  Dec 12 '24

Stop trying to date women. Get off dating apps. Focus on friends and interests. Treat women the same as men. Try to just see them as fellow humans. Work on being the best and happiest version of yourself. Eventually, the right people will just gravitate towards you.

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I feel awful about how I feel about my wife
 in  r/AskMenAdvice  Dec 12 '24

I could have written this a few years ago. Sounds like the relationship I had with my ex wife. Life is too short to spend it being miserable. It cost me a fortune, it was rough and I did a ton of therapy, but my life is so much better now.

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I feel awful about how I feel about my wife
 in  r/AskMenAdvice  Dec 12 '24

I lived it for years. Now I'm happily divorced. It cost a fortune and lots of therapy, but it was all worth it.

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I think I overdosed on ADHD meds??
 in  r/ADHD  Dec 12 '24

I hope that you went to the ER. I have propranolol for when my heart decides to start racing. Might want to ask your primary if it's smart to have that or something similar around.

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It takes hard work to become a CEO /s
 in  r/facepalm  Dec 12 '24

The hero is on the left.

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Yeah that United Healthcare assassin is never going to be heard from again lol
 in  r/BlackPeopleTwitter  Dec 05 '24

UHG kind of runs Optum. Optum does some non-UHG tech, but it is almost entirely the tech arm of UHG. Stocks might be split, but it still primarily acts as a unified entity where UHG leads most of Optum.

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What is your age without telling us your age?
 in  r/AskReddit  Nov 03 '24

Fun story... My partner and I are both millennials. '81 and '97. I'm not X and they are not Z. But we have X and Z friends. So you could be 27 or 43.

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Random VHS tape sent to me. Return address is my home address as I’m at college
 in  r/Weird  Oct 31 '24

I once received a giant box of tampons. Like a business might buy to stock women's restrooms. No note. But my girlfriend is still using them to this day.

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Taking a day off from Vyvanse after six weeks and woah...
 in  r/ADHD  Sep 30 '24

Ritalin/Concerta has worked wonders for my family. I have to take propanol sometimes to slow my heart, but the days without it are an absolute struggle. It's like trying to steer a car from the back seat with your feet on a bumpy back road.

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Am I (19F) expecting too much from my gf (19F) in our sex life?
 in  r/relationship_advice  Sep 16 '24

Intimacy isn't just physical. It comes in many forms and is built through communication, quality time and trust. Making time to appreciate and work on all forms of intimacy is how to build or rebuild a relationship.

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Why would my (28/f) friend (29/m) and his girlfriend (27/f) do this to me?
 in  r/relationship_advice  Sep 08 '24

Agreed. I would wager that it's 1 mixed with 3. Really, 3-ways should have a lot of discussion leading up to them. It's too easy to hurt or ruin a relationship. If you have not been intimate with your friend, your first time should probably not be in a group setting. Talk it out real good like adults or pass.

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How should I confront a woman(29F) sending my husband (40M) nudes?
 in  r/relationship_advice  Aug 12 '24

I wouldn't confront her. This is totally on your husband. I'm a guy and I'm not like that. I don't stay friends with guys like that. I'm 43M, so this isn't an age/generation thing. I would take this as a giant red flag and consider if this human is really someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with or not. Lack of healthy boundaries and understanding of consent are big nopes for me.