r/findomsupportgroup • u/beeinatrenchcoat67 • 4d ago

Question/Need Advice Messaging subs? Yay or Nay?

Saw a post today mentioning how dommes should take more charge in messaging subs cuz we missing out on possible subs. Ik a lot of dommes tend to be very opposed to being the first to message since subs tend to dislike getting reached out to so this made me curious. What do yall think, as a domme how often would u say u message subs (if at all) and if not why are u opposed to the idea? Also if any subs are lurking, do yall actually mind getting messaged or ignore dommes who do and prefer to seek them out on ur own?

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u/Gothiccc_Goddess_ 4d ago

if i see a sub posting in paypigsneedvanilla or fetishwantads or something i will reach out to them. because i know they are looking and want to be reached out to. other than that though i tend to try and let them come to me!

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u/beeinatrenchcoat67 4d ago

Ah ok makes sense!! I’ll have to look at those pages:))

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u/Gothiccc_Goddess_ 4d ago

once you have 500 karma you can respond to posts in paypigsneedvanilla just so you know. idk the amount for the other group i still haven't gotten there yet 😅

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u/beeinatrenchcoat67 4d ago

Oh i didn’t know that thanks for the heads up!!😭still a way to go then

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u/Gothiccc_Goddess_ 4d ago

just comment on everything you can!

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u/beeinatrenchcoat67 4d ago

It’s 500 karma combined or 500 comment karma specifically?

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u/Gothiccc_Goddess_ 4d ago

combined. actually it might be like 490 or something wierd, because i think i noticed i could comment when my combined was at like 497

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u/beeinatrenchcoat67 4d ago

Oh okok, hopefully with a few more days of activity I’ll be fine