Last night, I gave my first blowjob to someone, and we agreed that they'd cum in my mouth cause we both thought it was hot. When he said he did, I felt him momentarily get harder, but didn't taste anything. So I just shrugged and kept on going, figuring he just got real close, but didn't actually cum.

When he got close a second time, I made sure that his head was on my tongue, cause I was kinda curious what he'd taste like ngl, but when he came, I still didn't taste or feel anything in my mouth.

Is it possible to miss the cum when giving a blowjob? Did he dry orgasm? I'm not complaining if it means I don't have to deal with a gross taste, I'm just kinda confused haha.

My bf moans and seems to really enjoys blowjobs, but as soon as we switch to sex, he's silent. He doesn't even make a sound when he cums. Does he enjoy the blowjob more, or is this typical behavior? I can't tell when he cums from sex because he doesn't give any physical cues. It's making me feel insecure about his enjoyment from sex.

Edit: Just for some clarity on the situation, I'm on top 90% of the time while we have sex. I think most people assume he's doing most of the work during sex, but it's the opposite.

On social media we often see people stigmatizing having an odor "down there", or they often consider it a lack of hygiene, or it's treated like the fishy odor caused by bacterial vaginosis (even though it's two different things, a light odor is natural meanwhile an intense or unpleasant smell is indicator of an infection).

It seems that a lot guys expect women to be odorless, which is somewhat understandable since porn affects perception of reality, I assume they realize the truth when they start having sex, but what surprises me is that a lot of women talk about being odorless and shame other women who talk about vaginas having a natural odor, while they themselves know it's not possible to be odorless. Even doctors online say it's not possible to be odorless.

So that has gotten me thinking, do guys actually enjoy going down on a woman, considering the (unexpected) odor? Is the "I love eating pssy" statement real? Are the "i never met a woman with an odor" people just lying? Each woman has her own odor and taste, and each scent is attractive to different people, so I know the answer may differ from person to person.

I asked this question on another sub and it was overridden by horndogs so I’m posting here.

Basically, I’m going on a fairly long road trip with a friend and we’re sleeping in the bed in his van. I’m nervous that not being able to do… the deed will cause wet dreams and that I’ll get stuff dirty.

I wear underwear and pants to sleep but I just am getting very anxious about this and would prefer not to have a wank in a gas station or whatever.

I've never been eaten out before and I wanted to do it with someone special. I realllllly like this 1 guy, I think I'm too emotional about him and he told me he wants to eat me out. He has done it before to 2 random girls as well but he said it was horrible experience and he stopped in 1 minute ... so idk if he's saying this cuz he really likes me.... or he just likes giving head.

What are the CHANCES he likes giving head to random women? Or do majority men like to do it only for the girls they have feelings for?

Edit- Y'all are missing the point of the question. I'm asking if men like to do it for ANY girl or only the girls they like

I’m a teenager and I’ve never had sex, so I’m sure this isn’t an STD. But sometimes — not every day, maybe once every 2-3 days — I feel a burning sensation in my urethra when I urinate after I ejaculate through masturbation. Occasionally, it even burns during ejaculation. It usually goes away 5-10 minutes later when I apply ciprofloxacin or ofloxacin eye drops to the tip of the urethra, but I’m starting to get worried. Why might this be happening?

exactly the question.

Like it doesn't make sense. If they want young why don't they just target 18 year olds? Like why risk your freedom and everything just to have sex with a 15 year old?

I am an American (I know I worded the title weird, oops) who attended a Hands Off rally today and everyone was cheery and ringing bells and chanting. I’m very upset with the current state of things and this rubbed me the wrong way.

I have been thinking about this, not only because of current events, but I had to watch Dumb Money for a class. It's about the GameStop stock thing that happened a few years ago. It depicted a woman who invested modestly, had $500k at the height of it, kept it all in, and then lost it all. Why wouldn't you take some out to help yourself out and leave the rest to gamble with? Why is it an all or nothing thing?

As in the title, I find direct contact to the clit to hurt and not be pleasurable at all. I can orgasm with a vibrator pressed on my outer lips on top of the clit- not directly touching. When my BF goes down on me even light touch of the tongue or finger hurts (he knows to avoid it but sometimes happens on accident). Just wondering if this is normal for other women? I’m asking too because it seems that in porn that women love rubbing their own or having theirs rubbed and enjoy the hell out of it. Then again I know porn is unrealistic in many ways which is why I’m coming to Reddit for some answers and other people’s experiences.

WARNING, GROSS

I'm sorry for how gross this is but sometimes I don't even drink that much water and I'll be sweating to the point my whole back's drenched still, and I don't smell very nice sometimes because of it, I don't know what to do so I thought I'd come here

(please don't tell me to go to the doctors I'm on to that)

Somehow I can feel sexual attraction towards a person that I don't feel romantically attracted to, yet when I discuss this to the others they look at me horrified saying they only feel romantic attraction not sexual attraction or something like that. Am I not understanding attraction or what?

I can usually tell whether my attraction is sexual or romantic.
If it is romantic attaction, I usually want to see the other laugh and think they're cute, and sometimes sexually attractive. And I also want to get to know them on a personal leve;.

If it is sexual attraction, I only feel horny and want to fuck. So I just ignore this feeling as I know it is my monkey brain trolling me.

This feels like attraction 101 to me, why don't others feel the same? Do they just not feel sexual one and they only feel romatic one or they just don't want to discuss it?

It's been 3 months since I've joined college and there's this boy who is in the same class as me. We travel a whole hour to college in the same local bus every day. We've started texting since then and share reels with each other on IG. Other than that, we don't talk in the classroom at all, but at the bus station and in the bus, we talk freely without any judgement from classroom students.

So last night, I asked him about his ex and he asked about mine, and it turned out we have something in common. Although we flirt a lot over text and laugh at double meaning jokes all the way home and to college, we’ve decided to kiss each other—and tomorrow is the day.

We're not dating, we just want to kiss. Should I kiss him or not? It's my first kiss btw!

i’m a young adult moving from Florida to Indiana and i’ll be staying with my aunt who’s around 60ish years old and one of my older cousins who’s about 35ish years old. the cousin has 5 kids and i’m just wondering how to approach it. my first thought is to just chill and not worry about it but i’m kinda coming into their territory, though i’ll have my own space. oldest is 8 youngest is like 1.

I know it's a real question but I'm going onto my 30s and since my youth is gone, I look back and think how I haven't really had a life and I don't know how people do without having tons of money.

I most work, go back home (I live with my parents still), eat, sleep and repeat. I don't talk to anyone because they'd just make fun of me and look down on me for being poor so I stay to myself and play older video games.

I can't imagine how people are satisfied when their entire lives take place within a few couple miles in which they never ever leave. It's why I like looking at walking videos of other cities in the US and other countries just to see what the rest of the world looks like.

So how do people not hate the idea of essentially living the same day everyday until they die?

Is it weird to be a virgin in your twenties?

Sorry if NSFW

I (19m) have never been in a relationship, and as such, am still a virgin.

I turn 20 later on this year and i’m just starting to realise that for some girls a guy not having any sort of relationship is a red flag, I just am sort of worried I will be at some sort of disadvantage if I did decide to start dating.

Thank you

I'm an ex-addict, clean for two almost three years.

But I've been struggling a lot recently with going back. I use to do ❄️ and recently my life has been very rocky. A bad breakup a few months ago, I lost my job and can't seem to pull myself out of this depressive rut I find myself in.

The worst part is, is that I know exactly where I can get more. I know who to call, who to text and how much it is. And not really anyone can stop me from getting it other than me. How do you guys cope or stay away from it? I'm finding it harder and harder with every passing day.

I've been wanting to know for a while if this has a name. Fetish is basically a being fucking another being selfishly or for reproductive instincts, I have seen that sometimes they enter into some kind of frenzy I would like to emphasize the careless and selfish part of the one who dominates

I’ve never really had a group of friends that were like a family like a lot of people on earth have. I’ve always been alone in that regard. And given I’m nearly 30 now, it seems like a lot of people around my age don’t really have a desire to make friends because they already have their group from when they were younger/growing up. So why add a stranger to the mix? Even though I put myself out there and in social situations and meet and greets, it yields nothing.

Anyway, I’m mainly worried that even if I’m good on a first or second date, and me and a girl steadily get to know each other more, she’ll eventually find out I don’t have a social life and will be driven away by it.

Is this fear justified?

I have a trust fund, and my investment properties bring me around 5k€ net monthly. I don't pay rent. I live a comfortable life, but I really truly enjoy working in my field. Is it wrong to apply for jobs as a qualified individual in this job market?

ive liked a guy since starting of highschool,,the moment i laid eyes on him i liked him. at that time ny friends and i weren't friends we all were new to eachother after 1 year of highschool we became friends. i found out she dated the guy i liked for 3 months just chatting no meetings. i realised its wrong for me to like my friends ex but my feelings aren't going away for him he showed he liked me too we we're on and off all highschool years .now we talk regularly but i feel guilty and have been stop replying to his messages. should i talk to him or should i just keep ignoring ?

I, (34F) , made a dream match on Hinge (39M) at the end of January 2025. He was everything I could want in a man. He was very intentional; he planned dates, and we talked on the phone. He had his flaws; for example, he told me he was divorced and had a teenage child. But since we are getting older, I thought, “Well, the child is older, and there are fewer and fewer people in my dating pool without children,” so I made an exception bc I didn’t want to let one thing ruin a good thing. We continue to date, make plans, and talk about what we want, he met my parents. But there was one thing that got to me; I couldn’t find him online, anywhere. With the help of women, we found him. And come to find out, he is married, with a 4-year-old (dmn double homc*de). I confronted him, and I told the wife. She was appreciative. I would never want to be the other woman and contribute to someone’s pain. I tried to cut communication, but we both feel very strongly for each other. He said he has started the process to get a divorce because the feelings he has for me are real and that he wants a second chance at what we were trying to build. He also says he has started therapy. My question is this: I know I shouldn’t wait for him, but is there hope? If he gets a divorce, is there a chance for us? Will my family and friends ever forgive him?

Tldr: I 34F met a 39M on hinge we developed a strong connection. I discovered he is actually married with a young child. He claimed to have started the divorce process and therapy in hopes of a second chance. Is there hope for a future together? I hate that I’m even asking this.