r/findomsupportgroup 21h ago

Warning Findom is NOT JUST FUCK.U PAY ME, ITS A DYNAMIC

229 Upvotes

Edit:: THIS IS ABOUT MORE THAN JUST THE POST FROM THE OTHER GROUP TODAY!

I am so tired of reading about all these scammer dommes. I've been in the community for a while and they have always been here but holy fuck you leeches are really fucking up the scene. Findom is a SEXUAL dynamic, and it doesn't have to inherently be but it is. It is also a relationship, and yall don't want to build shit. This is not a side hustle , this is a lifestyle and to be quite honest most REAL dommes don't NEED shit from anyone, we deserve it. We should be spoiled but we can live with out.

Some of you guys thinks this is a side hustle or you can get a whale sub and live off of him and that's not it at allll.


r/findomsupportgroup 9h ago

Discussion Got my largest tribute today. Happy but now I want to get more subs. Any opinions

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109 Upvotes

r/findomsupportgroup 16h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. One of my subs bought all this off my throne omg!!

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94 Upvotes

r/findomsupportgroup 12h ago

Discussion There needs to be a tinder app for subs and dommes

81 Upvotes

Where you’re matched by compatibility and wants like I don’t want a boring sub I want to yap about random things all day.


r/findomsupportgroup 23h ago

Discussion Tips to be a Findomme without being the most boring bland “Send. Send More. Pay up loser.” Conversations 😄

71 Upvotes

Hiii! So I do want to make it clear to all dommes especially the newer dommes that not EVERY SUB enjoys being bullied and degraded especially upon first encounter. Some also get bored of being told to send over and over again with little effort.

Yes for some this is a major turn on but for a handful it’s not. Especially if you seek to establish any long term dynamic. There are much more creative ways to dominate someone financially without repeating “send. 🙄Tribute loser. 🙄Send more. 🙄Approach piggy🙄” like some GTA NPC’s. My first sub was actually the one to tell me this was the reason he ghosted another domme. You don’t want that to be you especially if it took you a bit to find a sub in the first place!

I don’t blame any of you for behaving this way because you have seen the success it has given other dommes. Especially if you found this kink community from X or TikTok because that’s usually what’s promoted. However most of those dommes won’t tell you how long those subs stick around, if they have long term dynamics, if they have any consistency overall etc etc.

At the end of the day Findom is a Power Exchange kink that involves money. You do have to dominate someone financially at the end of the day. You need to make them want to send. Not just once. You need to make them feel like them sending to you is the only thing that they should be doing in that moment. Like their desire to send to you outweighs all reason in that moment. Like the only thing they should be doing is exchanging monetary power to their goddess who they want nothing more from than their attention, acceptance, and approval.

There’s soooo many ways to do this without being rude or flat. Get in their heads. Use your words. Embody the Goddess you are and act accordingly. If they’ve already approached you that’s half the work done. You have the control now, so fucking wield it. Turn this into something more than just a quick little send.

Here are some examples of things I’ve said with my own recent dynamics that have worked flawlessly to give you a better idea of what you can try. That will not only have them so needy for you but can also help you easier reach some personal financial goals you have easier.

“That send was cute but not enough to make me entertain you much after this.”

“You know you’re really teasing me from the full amount of (insert name of whatever gift you want on your wishlist.) That’s almost insulting. Naughty Naughty.”

“With that amount..is that how little you get turned on by me? Your message history says otherwise so you better correct that accordingly before my patience is lost for good.”

“Such a shame, you could’ve been my favorite if you did a little more.”

“Youre so much cuter when you go above and beyond you know…Are you feeling like you want to be my cutest sub today?”

“The heels you bought last time are also useful for kicking you to the curb if you don’t give me exactly what I want. And I don’t think you want that. ”

“Sorry my phones do not disturb function only turns off when my sub is eager to please. With the amount of $ notifications I’ve gotten from you…it doesn’t seem that you’re eager.”

Do you see what I mean? Clearly drawing the line of who has the power here in every line. But not by calling them loser, pig, whatever other degrading copy paste word.

I could go on and on but I’m typing this out on my phone during my morning walk and no doubt there are probably a million typos and word vomit. Lmao.

Does this help or am I just talking out of my ass here? 💀

I think what I’m trying to say overall is that you can push for more sends ( within reason of your subs agreed upon budget ) without bland responses and mistreatment. Again I know some subs are very into that and those are fun little one and domes but I know most of you want to engage in a more fulfilling dynamic. Everything I just typed out is why I have 2.5 long term dynamics and more subs who immediately respect and beg to serve than I’ve had before.

I truly hope this helps all of you ladies and femme presenting dommes.

From one Domme to another, get your bag up and be submitted to the way you truly deserve. 😘


r/findomsupportgroup 14h ago

Humor Me when i get a send

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68 Upvotes

r/findomsupportgroup 8h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. This is what you call a good boy

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60 Upvotes

See how he sent without me having to say a word? Very demure, very mindful and veeeery cutsey🤭


r/findomsupportgroup 19h ago

Warning Not him again🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 new account, same game 🤣

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56 Upvotes

r/findomsupportgroup 13h ago

Dommes ONLY Some dommes are so gorgeous I half think about being a sub for them😭 like is it just me? 😂😂

52 Upvotes

There are few dommes I’ve come across that are just so gorgeous where I feel hypnotized. I’m not a finsub but when I see them I get the appeal of submitting to them. I’m like yes y’all better send to this queen she deserves it. Anybody else?


r/findomsupportgroup 3h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. My first sub!

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50 Upvotes

He was so kind and so sweet 🥹 We met through «X», and I like him so much!💓


r/findomsupportgroup 20h ago

Discussion Hey queens, what are we manifesting tonight

43 Upvotes

I want a rich, generous, relaxed, happy, and calming sub who can age verify, is the right amount of "obsessed with me, likes a chat but understands a day off, and gives me endless money obviously:)

Just a manifestation haha I accept all subs, but can't a girl dream?


r/findomsupportgroup 11h ago

Humor I think this is a good enough reason, don’t you?😌

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44 Upvotes

r/findomsupportgroup 6h ago

Discussion Chat, what do we think?

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31 Upvotes

Would you


r/findomsupportgroup 10h ago

Discussion Anybody else up late trying to find a sub? 👀

28 Upvotes

I'm sure I'm not the only night owl here haha. What are you doing while you wait? I'm listening to music and just vibin😌


r/findomsupportgroup 21h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. 🖕

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29 Upvotes

perfect way to start the day 🥰


r/findomsupportgroup 22h ago

Warning Picking and choosing who to remove and ban

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27 Upvotes

Such a weird experience this morning 💀 I had posted on this subreddit to promote ofc and this morning I got a message saying it was removed and I'm now banned from the community because I didn't have my age in the caption. The note from the moderator said "Enjoy your ban" which was so unnecessary btw but I digress. I know it's completely my fault for missing that rule, not disputing that but I mentioned how it's weird they pick and chose who to remove and ban because before I posted I saw MULTIPLE people post with no age in caption and are still there. They were mad and got so rude in the responses.

Apparently a moderator is also sub who posts sometimes and seems to be very rude and says interesting things but that's besides the point...moral of the story watch out for which groups you join some are odd.

Also if you saw my post about how Black dommes are treated this is a prime example iykyk


r/findomsupportgroup 15h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. Two new subs!

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27 Upvotes

I know it’s not a huge amount but as someone who is just getting back in the game I’m excited to be adding to my collection of piggies.


r/findomsupportgroup 17h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. ✨two✨

22 Upvotes

i got two new subs today!! i am so excited. it's especially awesome because i had been getting kind of discouraged. i haven't been doing this on here for very long, but i got one sub right away, and then a couple sends but it sort of died down a bit after that. i made sure to keep posting and commenting regularly though, staying active within the community. and they found me 🥰

yeah anyways my point is just keep going, and being consistent is key!! also find your niche and stick to it!!


r/findomsupportgroup 1h ago

Humor I have the urge to shitpost, if you have that urge too you can participate 🩷🩷🩷

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You can put a picture or say something funny as long as you keep it SFW, I’ll delete it if it causes any problems 💖💖💖


r/findomsupportgroup 4h ago

Discussion I can’t wait to find a sub like this😭

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24 Upvotes

r/findomsupportgroup 4h ago

Question/Need Advice Where the dommes at? (from a domme)

23 Upvotes

Meeting new subs is nice and all BUT I want to meet some of my beautiful fellow Dommes and make some friends! Does anyone know any discord servers or telegram group chats I can make some connections? :)


r/findomsupportgroup 21h ago

Discussion question!

23 Upvotes

can we chat on here? i really want to connect with this community about literally anything. i mostly just reply to comments but they usually don’t lead anywhere. this isn’t an attention seeking post, i just want to make friends with people alike. we could talk about niches or crazy experiences or funny sub/dom things or fave chat logs or pet peeves idkkkkk anything. i want fangirl over somethinggggg


r/findomsupportgroup 1d ago

Discussion Sub funded Plastic surgery

23 Upvotes

Have yall ever had a sub fund some type of surgery for you? Or maybe in the works of doing so? I think the whole idea of a bbl, lips, botox being funded by a sub is soooo🥵 if it was to happen what would you get? What would you enhance?


r/findomsupportgroup 18h ago

Question/Need Advice Retired Queen

22 Upvotes

Hey, so, as the title says, I'm a retired queen, is about to be a year since i deleted all my accounts because a random guy decided to be creepy and disgusted me SO much that i gave up all. My bday is this month and i remember having SO much fun on those days before that, making games, taking new pics, off course the gifts, i kinda wanna start again or maybe just doing it for a day to gain the power that i had back. It sucks that one person can suck all the joy of something You like so much. I kinda don't know what to do. Sorry for venting