Hi Mayor Johnson – The sweeps that happened in District 3 last week were against the orders from your office. What is the mayors office doing to punish/acknowledge the officers that wasted taxpayer resources preforming an illegal sweep?  Are these the same officers repeatedly disregarding this program?

Hi Reddit, I need some beginner help. I received some stocks in an inheritance and the brokerage firm my grandparents used is horrible. They don't do anything digital, (I'm talking emails area a challenge for them), they don't follow through with anything they say, and are just stuck in 1985 as far as their processes go. If I request an appointment or ask questions I'm ignored and treated poorly. I want to be done with these people. It's an older man that should have retired 20 years ago that was putting any of my gains into an account earing 2%. So what do I do from here? do I transfer the stock (2) to a new fidelity or robin hood account? Do i shut the account down and just start a new investment account with the money?

The 2 stocks have been losing money for the past year, but just showed some gain on this statement. There is part of me that wants to keep some of the stocks since my Grandpa picked them out for us. I'm completely lost and overwhelmed when I try to figure this out. My grandparents wanted us to learn, but unfortunately set us up with someone that did nothing at all to help us understand what was left to us.

I did just get the simple path the wealth book but know that will take me some time to figure out. Any advice on what to do to get these stock away from that broker and somewhere I can manage and learn on my own is the first step for me. Thank you!

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I know you how you feel all too well. For me, I would not be ok with another woman calling my husband first thing in the morning or right before bed. It's feels like it's dancing the line on being a romantic gesture to me, even if that's not the intent of the other woman. Other people may feel differently about this, but since they have been intimate I think they should be more respectful of your relationship. It ok to feel like there are somethings about their relationship that your not comfortable with and good that you can recognize those feelings. You don't know her well enough to know if her marriage is going well, or if she's looking to shift their friendship. The biggest thing here is communicating in your relationship.

I think what this takes is having a discussion with your husband about what boundaries need to be in place for you to feel comfortable with that relationship. This other woman clearly doesn't have those boundaries so he needs to be the one to establish them. And you have to be flexible, you don't want to have him end the friendship and resent you for it. The goal is for you and him to work together to make sure you both are happy and comfortable. If she's calling after work to catch up, that seem OK. Calling first thing is a bit off.

As for the flicking you off thing, unless it was a running joke for the evening, that's some weird passive aggressive move even as a joke. But I wasn't there so I don't know.

Keep the communication open with your husband. The way you feel is valid

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Thank you, I'm in the phase of being sad and angry. I'm usually not so mad, with this one I am. If he just would have talked to me and been honest when I asked. I know there's more to it than what he said, he's just not able to communicate. It is what it is

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This sounds just like a relationship I was in years ago. I thought the guy was the love of my life and that we were going to have the best little family ever. Met his daughter 2 weeks into the relationship, he hated his ex (she cheated on him and was such a bad mom), and he very quickly let me know he wants more kids and that he's financially stable. I fell hard because I ignored the red flags.

Once thing I learned after I healed from that relationship was that the opposite of love isn't hate. Hate takes passion and an expression of emotion, there's still emotions they have for each other that was once love but is now hate. I hope in a weird poetic way that makes sense. If he was really out of love with her, he wouldn't be carrying hate. The opposite of love is disinterest, because with the disinterest, that person no longer has the ability to emotionally affect you.

The guy I dated cheated on me with his kids mom, the woman he hated so much. Because once we started to develop a good relationship she started going after him and he still loved her. I'd advise to run. Not because of the kid, but because of all the red flags

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Sounds like you've got a case of analysis paralysis. Love isn't always what you see in the Disney movies and rom coms, it's not always a big passionate expression that engulfs your every thought. In fact I see love like that as a red flag. It's unique, beautiful experience between 2 people. For me, I knew I loved my boyfriend pretty quickly but took time to tell him. My love for him comes from the comfort I feel when I'm with him and the support I get from him every day. He's a super busy guy, but will take the time out of his day to call me just to check in. I can see the rest of my life with him because he sees me for who I am and loves me flaws and all. Hope that helps. There's a book I recommend called the mastery of love, it gave me a great view on love and how to express and see it

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So glad you said this! There's also a cycle to reading too many self help books. We're all a little broken, but too much glue can be just as bad and being a broken toy

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